•Don’t touch anyone or anything (such as another person’s toys)
without permission.
•Don’t open closed doors. They may be off limits.
•Don’t engage in sexual penetration of any kind.
•Clean up after yourself.
•Follow any additional rules that the organizer specifies or posts.
•Thank the host before you leave.
•Don’t discuss details of the party after it’s over. A good rule of thumb: “What happens at a play party stays at a play party.”
•Follow the dress code (if there is one).
•Negotiate your role in a scene before entering it.
•Make sure play is safe and consensual.
•Don’t assume that anyone you meet is single or available.
•Be polite to everyone you encounter.
•If you choose to play, observe designated safe words.
•Don’t interrupt anyone else’s “scene.”
•Don’t perform acts of “play” or nudity, except in designated areas.
•Guns or illegal drugs are not permitted.
•Don’t take pictures or videos unless you know it’s allowed.
•Refrain from smoking unless it’s a designated smoking area.