A BDSM gathering, which is often dubbed a “play party,” can be hosted by an individual or an owner of an establishment. Guests may partake in actual play, such as a bondage scene, or they can choose to simply mingle with others and observe the action, While the rules aren’t set in stone, there are some generally accepted guidelines that most people are expected to observe at the BDSM CLUB:

• While no two events are identical, many BDSM play parties involve similar setups.
• Attendees might arrive in or change into “fetish wear,” which may include leather garments or other role-play costumes.
• Usually, there’s an area for socializing and an area for “play.” The type and amount of erotic sexual play that’s permitted at a party depends on the local laws, the establishment itself, and the organizer’s preferences.
A “dungeon mistress” or “dungeon master” is a person (or sometimes a group of people) designated to supervise the play. This enforcer makes sure that the activities performed are safe and consensual. Dungeon monitors often wear a specific type of uniform, hat, or armband, so that they can be easily recognized.
• It’s mandatory for sub to pay up for kits and membership registration fee, before holding sessions with mistress or exploring kinky role in the Bdsm club.
• If it doesn’t belong to you, don’t touch it. That applies to people, toys, purses, beverages, etc
• Clean the equipment after you’re done with it and move away so other people can use it.
• Leave your cellphone in your pocket except in designated areas.
• Respect your partner at all times, no matter their role.
• Make sure your partner is comfortable at all times, no matter their role.
• In general, discuss new things before you actually do them, unless you discuss doing otherwise. I mean a new toy is one thing, a new toy that puts eggs inside you is another.
• Set a safeword, and absolutely respect it, unless discussed otherwise.
• Trust each other.

BDSM EVENTS ARE TYPICALLY DIVIDED INTO TWO CATEGORIES:
• Private Parties: These are held in someone’s home, and guests are usually welcomed by invitation only. Typically they’re free, the rules are more lenient, and a dungeon monitor may or may not be present.
• Public Parties: They’re often held at a rented space and sponsored by a BDSM organization or business. At a public party, there’s usually an admission charge or donation request. The rules are typically stricter, and dungeon monitors are frequently present to ensure that scenes are safe.